Have you ever tried many types of food in one restaurant, or one type of food in many restaurant, how many times have you changed fuel to find out which one is the best fuel for your car, have you ever tried downloading many movies just to see what's good is on, have you ever tried different bus going different routes, have you ever went to a movie just to find out it's not worth the ticket you bought...this is all trial and errors. If you don't get it right the first time, there's always a other times...but...you just don't get "unlimited chances". But that "other" times is probably btter in 1001 ways, better that you are smarter, mature, sharper and even stronger. once you get it right and you want what's right for you...grab it...
People write and read vows everyday, there's a terminology, i hope, future, soon to be and so on but those are just hopeful words, optimistically proven words to give people hope either real or false hope. But what we can be is to be sure...if people say in sickness and in health, we should know that we will be there to take care and cherish and mutually love a person, till forever and every for eternity. moreover if the person lights the road to happiness...