Weakness and fear is definitely align with each other, with fear we are often forced to imagine, visualize, think and be emotional on things we're not exactly suppose to be worries about. How many times we wake up feeling tired and afraid that we're gonna fall sick later on in the day, how we are afraid of the jam and our car might be stuck and etc. But things more crucial than that are things such as fear of making mistakes, losing someone, facing something and experiencing something.
I've came across men's greatest fear, it outlined so many things, from hair loss, to death, to pleasuring women, rejection.
Basically the ranking from #15 to #1 are:
#15. Hair in the drain - Getting bald? What's the problem with that? I think some people would look better and i guess it does happen. If you hair doesn't get thinner and it'll get thicker, so either way we have to live with it.
#14. Getting caught noticing other women - Women and are asset and precious and gemstone. If we see them especially those pretty ones, how could we resist from looking at them and this goes for the women who stare and the hot guys. Isn't it just a blessing?
#13. Rejection - Rejection happens all the time, if we apply for a credit card, load, leave, we could also get rejected, so why wouldn't a women reject us, so we'll just have to try harder and we'll get there, hopefully
#12. Super nannys - Scared being around strong women? or people who'll be able to take care of your kids, ridiculous, let them do their job and you do yours
#11. Speedos - Why should be fear wearing speedos, women spend millions of dollars getting bikini wax and whatever things they do to fit in their swimsuit and bikinis, so if we just don't suit a speedos, do something about it.
#10. His dad's death - On this, i must agree, i don't think it's more towards our own mortality but more towards someone we depend on and someone we take as a model, without them we just might get lost.
#09. Her tears - This is without a doubt, this is one of my main weakness, i just can't see people cry, i just can't..
#08. Being lousy lover - This is another ridiculous things. Guys buy so many things to make their "thing" work, bigger, last longer but they don't realise sex is simply a two way interaction. You can have big "thing" and can last only a few minutes and last hours but have a hardly visible item. Either way, work on it, takes time to master.
#07. Not being good to his kids - Taking care and being good with kids, require practice. A lot of it, learning what kids wants and how kids want it. We'll get there
#06. Living paycheck to paycheck - Money means getting thru to women so it's true, we're afraid of not having enough money..sux rite..no money no women
#05. Beautiful women - Are we intimatdated, just keep in mind they are who they are and we are who are, either way, they love people who are not their arrogant kind because they know how it is to be around their own kind
#04. Being naked - I think being naked is subjected. Being naked in public is pure stupidity but but being naked around naked people are seamlessly nothing, who cares, we should be proud with what we have.
#03. Tofurky - Healthy food? it's good to have them, think about it
#02. Not seeing his kids grow up - Who cares!! Just joking, of course, one day not seeing them, we will definitely miss out on a lot of things.
#01. Public humiliation - Who isn't but either way, we'll experience it once in our life, I've feel from a stool in public before, embarrassing but what the heck, sumtin to giggle thinking about it.